Why Parental Controls Often Make Things Worse
Most advice tells parents to install controls and walk away. But after 12 years in schools and personal experience with problematic gaming, I've learned something counterintuitive:
Parental controls can do more harm than good.
They create an adversarial relationship. They teach children to circumvent rather than self-regulate. They give parents false confidence while missing the real problem.
What works instead? Parental monitoring — staying engaged, understanding what your child is doing online, and building the relationship that makes boundaries stick.
This isn't what most experts say. But it's what actually works.